chores in San Diego

I am off to San Diego this morning to begin the work that follows a death; mortuary, crematorium, financial advisor, lawyer, memorial service arrangements. This, along with the comforting of my brother-in-law, will take up the hours and days of my visit. I dread having to look at any of her belongings. Even her books. We may save that for a later trip. Too soon, too raw, too intrusive. Too sad.